Heroes, Bestsellers, and Chocolate Bliss

On a gorgeous Pacific Northwest day, I came out of my writing cave, and met up with Lily Santana and Jessa Slade. 

Lunch with my fab writing friends, Jessa Slade and Lily Santana!

Our meeting place: The mother ship, that beacon of brick and mortar that draws writers and readers into it, sucking hours of life away in continuous bliss – Powell’s Books.  At least, that’s where we were the first three hours.

Over coffee, lunch, and drinking chocolates, we shared our writing process, what makes us excited about writing, and the importance of chocolate.

And so I give you our nuggets of wisdom:

–  Chocolate, we all agreed, stimulates creativity, so for writers, this is a must.  (That one was easy!)  Which was why Jessa and Lily later decided we deserved lots of it for each chapter we completed.  Lily suggested 160 ozs. per book (8 ozs. per chapter x 20 chapters).  Personally, I go through waaay more than that!  (Life’s short.  Books take a long time to produce.  Why have limits?)

Chocolate bliss!

–  Writing is hard.  You know that saying we writers have heard over and over?  About how splitting a vein open is easier than writing?  Personally, I think that’s true.  Yet we pound away at the computer, we agonize over sentence structure, we give up sleep, and we help our process along with a lot of chocolate (see the first nugget above).  And in spite of the relatively low return (unless you happen to like rejection), we do it over and over again.

Jessa said, “If you can be happy doing something else, do that. . ..  Then again, happy is overrated.”

Lily said, “What I like and don’t like about writing is the the same thing: it requires a level of focus I don’t find anywhere else.”

–  Why do we write?  Lily admitted, “I love the feeling of falling in love.”

Jessa was blatantly honest.  (Would you expect anything else?)  “I like hot guys.”

I write because I can’t seem to quit.  It’s an addiction, this driving need to commit words to paper in some form that makes a reader smile.  Besides, in this crazy world, where life sometimes spirals out of control, I’m a sucker for a happily-ever-after.

–  In choosing story structure, Lily builds around a scene that comes to her.  She has to know the hero first (like I do!), what makes him tick, and why.  The heroine comes next because, as she stated with a grin, “I’m always the heroine.”

Chocolate-induced happiness!

For Jessa, she starts with an idea.  “But that’s a bad thing.  Why?  Starting with an idea can lead to preaching, whereas starting with a character or situation has story implicit in it and gives you a stronger start.”

–  Bestseller lists.  What author doesn’t dream of hitting the bestseller lists?  When she does, Lily said, “I’m buying a waterfront home for my family to enjoy.”

After careful thought, Jessa piped in with “a lake front home, a mountain home, a beach home.  All with housekeepers!”

Me?  I’ll take a custom-made pair of Christian Louboutin shoes.  Oh, and what Jessa said.  But I’d like a cook and a gardener, too!  😉

After wandering through Powell’s Books, eating lunch al fresco, and consuming the perfect drinking chocolate at Cacao Drink Chocolate, I felt refreshed, reconnected, and strangely validated as a writer.  Then again, books, food, chocolate, and the company of fabulously supportive writer friends will do it every time!

-Melia

Things That Made Me Smile This Week

Raindrops on roses, and whiskers on kittens. . ..

Okay, okay.  My apologies to Julie Andrews!  Couldn’t resist.  🙂  But who wouldn’t smile at some of the things I’d experienced this week?

Like a kitty who insisted on helping with my WIP.

I’m telling you, this turning point isn’t going to work!  (Man, everybody’s a critic. . ..)

Then there’s the totally-new-to-me contraption I discovered when I attended a local RWA chapter meeting.  (Freakin’ awesome!  How did we ever get along without one of these?)

A drinking fountain that fills water bottles!

Or this when I got up for more coffee:

Did I miss breakfast?

But what brought the biggest smile to my face this past week?  I asked Hubby to fix my shoe, and when I woke up the next morning, I discovered this!

Eat your heart out, Cinderella!

Yeah, okay.  So life’s simple things do make me smile when I really pay attention.  Like the smell of coffee.  Or the sound of my husband’s snores when I wake up in the morning.  The friendly gesture of a stranger, or hanging out in the backyard on a warm summer day.  And, of course, a few moments to reflect on it all.

So.  What makes you smile?

-Melia (who continues to smile as I work on my current manuscript – despite a heroine who is so not listening to me at the moment.  Aarrgh! – That was a happy sound.  I swear.)

Can You Say “Happy”?

I feel like singing!  Which, depending on where you are relative to my location, could be a bad thing.  My sisters seem to have the singing and dancing part down.  I do not.  I have been told I can write, so I’m going with that.  Which is why I feel like singing!  Yeah, I’m in a mood. . ..

Anal writer that I am, I generally give myself about four weeks to figure out the hero and heroine’s inner and outer journey.  I know, I know!  Four weeks is FOREVER!  But, I do have a day-job — also affectionately known as the male observation lab — so four weeks is about right.  This time, I finished a bit ahead of schedule, which means the draft is, theoretically, ahead of schedule.

So, I leave you with the beginning of my storyboard, while I happily pound away at the keys!

Storyboard for my current manuscript (I swear the wheat grass and water bowl are not for me!)

Happy writing!

-Melia

Happy Birthday to Me

Instead of some overly serious post on the joys of turning another year older, I decided to show you my *cough* *cough* birthday weekend in pictures!

It started with three of my favorite writing peeps — my CPs. (Sydney Bennett prefers to be behind the camera, but I swear she’s real!)

Me with the uber fabulously talented Meredith Clark and Lainey Rogoza

And, of course, there was CAKE!  Gluten-free Strawberry Lemonade Cupcake with a gluten-free chocolate cookie — HEAVEN on a plate!

Breakfast!

Met one of my besties and a couple of other friends afterwards for a stroll through Saturday Market.

Garlic whistles!
Mushrooms!
Peas and Carrots — Organic Style!

And, of course, it wouldn’t be a birthday without a visit to a lingerie shop! 🙂

Much Fun to be Had Here!

Later, Hubby and I were blessed with an opportunity to witness history being made by some incredible athletes.

Entering the 2012 Olympic Track and Field Trials
View of Hayward Field From Our Seats
Me and Hubby!
A friend wore his 2012 Rose Bowl Championship ring — a bit huge on my hand, huh?

I realized later that evening that I greeted my birthday wide awake instead of fast asleep.

Officially Turning Another Year Older

Why? I blame it all on Laura Kaye and HER FORBIDDEN HERO! Incredible chemistry between the hero and heroine, making it oh-so-difficult to put down!!

The Reason I Was Up Until 2 AM!

And when I woke up, there was MORE CAKE!! (Thank you, Jenna Bayley-Burke!)

Grain-Free Coconut Cake With Lemon Curd and Strawberries!!

After Mass that morning, where Father David’s Homily focused on the importance of remaining flexible human beings (was he talking to me?!), I settled onto the back deck with a good book, and the company of two of my boys.

Alexander James, aka The Prince

The weekend was capped off with dinner with friends at a local hang out.

Me and one of my besties!
Steak Salad with a glass of Cabernet Sauvignon — perfect combo for *THIS* birthday girl!

All in all, it was a pretty tame weekend. Notice what wasn’t on the list of things I’d done? Yep. No writing. That’s for tomorrow morning. At 4:02 AM. Sharp.

G’night, all!
-Melia